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BDSM Gigolo: Exclusive BDSM experiences for women

Welcome to a world where you are allowed to lose control. I am Maximilian, a BDSM gigolo and your Professional Dominant (ProDom), specializing in providing BDSM experiences for women.

In a time when BDSM still carries taboos, I offer a discreet environment for women seeking an exciting BDSM experience. Submissive Sensations reflects my vision and approach to erotic encounters centered entirely on consensual dominance and power exchange, with you at the heart of the experience.

Together, we create exciting scenarios in which your erotic desires and fantasies surrounding bondage, discipline, and sexual masochism take center stage. I offer an escape from daily pressures and a pathway to a more intense sensual experience. Alongside the necessary firm hand, I provide the respectful and safe environment in which your complete surrender becomes possible.

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BDSM sessions

My sessions are structured around three core BDSM themes:

Impactplay

A BDSM session with me is not a soft experience, but an intense and controlled exploration of your physical and mental boundaries through various forms of impact play. You will experience a deliberate approach to physical stimulation through practices such as spanking and sensory play. During a session, a heightened sensory awareness and deep mental release naturally emerge. Do not expect a velvet-glove approach, but a direct and raw confrontation of physical pleasure.

- Spanking
- Slapping
- Squeezing
- Flogging
- Caning
- Paddling
- Cropping
- Whipping
- Slappers
- Belting
- Martinet
- Finger flicking
What I don’t do
- Punching
- Kicking
- Kneeing
- Thumping
- Pommeling
Safety
During impact play, avoiding the kidneys, spine, and joints is crucial. Due to the adrenaline rush and the physical toll, proper aftercare is always a standard and mandatory part of every session.

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Bondage

Physical restriction creates the mental surrender you long for. By binding you, I take away your control and force you to sink completely into the moment. Bondage provides a much stronger, intimate connection with your deepest inner feelings and your submissive consciousness. It is the literal binding agent for stimulating BDSM scenarios. Within the strict boundaries imposed upon you, you no longer have to make any decisions, knowing that I completely determine the rhythm and intensity of our session.

- Light Bondage
- Lederen Bondage
- Halsbanden & Lijnen
- Touw bondage
- Zintuiglijke Beperking
- Mondknevels (Gags)
- Fixatie aan Objecten
- Spreaders & Bars
- Self-Bondage (onder regie)
What I don’t do
- Roping (Shibari/Kinbaku is te tijdsintensief en gespecialiseerd)
- Suspension Bondage
- Medische Bondage
- Onveilige materialen
- Langdurige isolatie
Safety
To minimize risks, I ensure the prevention of nerve compression; therefore, I maintain a maximum of 15 minutes for continuous binding. Safety shears or a 'safety cutter' are always within arm's reach.

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Powerdynamics

Our encounter revolves around the dynamics of control and surrender. I forcefully draw you into my direction, ranging from strict protocols to humiliating acts. Within my dominant shadow, it is safe to drop the armor of your persona and explore deep emotions. Power dynamics offer a 'polyrhythm' of roles and egos. Together, we create scenarios where you can unabashedly push against my resistance, and I subject you to the power and energy you long for.

- Dom & Sub
- Owner & Property (Collar)
- Consensual Non-Consent (CNC)
- Forced Group (CNC)
- Service Submissive
- Objectificatie
- Brat-taming
- Rescripting
- Strict Protocol
- Captivity (Gevangenschap)
- Forced Tease
What I don’t do
- Fantasie & Mythisch
- Familie of Werk
- Ageplay / Littlespace
- Pet Play
Safety
I offer you the safety to experience complete freedom within the boundaries of your surrender. Agreeing on a framework beforehand is crucial. Our foundation is trust and the knowledge that, as a submissive, you can reclaim control at any moment using a safeword. Afterward, extra attention for you (aftercare) is essential.

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About me

Raised in the Netherlands, as a 41-year-old I have been shaped into the roles of a father, entrepreneur, and lover of the BDSM game. From an early age, I have been fascinated by the influencing of human behavior and dark desires, something that also found its way into my own sexual interests.

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After a successful career as a behavior and communication expert in international business, I chose to further deepen my fascination with complex human interactions. This fits with my personal desire to assume full care of, and control over, you as a professional Dominant. Flawlessly sensing non-verbal cues and your body language is precisely what makes my work as a BDSM gigolo fulfilling

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Absolute reliability is my guarantee and forms the foundation of our sessions. Therefore, I work strictly according to ethical guidelines such as SSC and RACK, and I am, of course, First Aid certified.

*For privacy reasons, I will share my photos after a contact request

Age:
41 yrs

Height:
183 cm

Weight:
81 kg

Member:
L

Orientation:
Heterosexual

Skin tone:
Caucasian

Hair:
Dark blonde

Eyes:
Grey

Starsign:
Scorpio

Education:
Marketing Management

Sports:
Martial arts (Judo), Trail running, Mountain biking, Swimming

Interests:
Art, Design, Cultural history

Guilty pleasures:
Pistachio nuts, Ginger beer

Favorite music:
Drum & Bass, Jazz, Grunge, Indie
Favorite books:
The Sun Also Rises, The Fountainhead
Favorite movies:
True Romance, Identity
Favorite TV series:
Mindhunter, Mad Men
Favorite sex positions:
Flat doggy, Greasy spoon
Favorite BDSM toy:
Flogger

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Pricing

Introduction Session

€ 300,-
(90 minutes)

An initial exploration of the dynamics between us. During open play, we will investigate your deepest desires and fantasies. This forms the foundation for any future encounter; a powerful introduction where my attention and your desires meet.

Regular BDSM Session

€ 200,- an hour
(2 hour minimum)

An immersive, recurring experience in which we explore your favorite BDSM dynamics. These sessions provide the time needed to completely let go of your rational mind and uninhibitedly immerse yourself in your desires and fantasies. Every minute is dedicated to your wishes. This can potentially include a Yoni massage, a dinner date, or acting as your companion to an event.

Day & Night Experience

€ 3.000,-
(24 hours)

The ultimate form of surrender, where my guiding presence is continuously felt for 24 hours. Alongside the intense highlights of our BDSM sessions, there is ample time for intimate closeness or interacting with the outside world. I can guide you through a day of pure relaxation or accompany you in style to events.

Payment & Costs

My rates include materials and travel expenses within the Netherlands. Any travel expenses elsewhere in Europe and the rental fees for a specific venue (such as a BDSM dungeon or day-stay hotel) will be agreed upon in advance. Because your privacy is paramount, all payments are handled in cash or untraceably via bank transfer to a neutral company name. For a first booking, I require a 25% deposit, which can be safely paid via bank transfer or cash sent to a postal address.

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Our date

Below, is a brief overview of how a first date with me unfolds:

1) Send me a message
You can send me a message through the channel that feels most discreet to you. Prior to our first appointment, you will receive my photos, there will be room for questions, and we will schedule an introductory (video) call.

2) Introduction
Before our first meeting, we will have a short video call (15 minutes) to introduce ourselves. This allows you to get a better sense of me and see if there is a comfortable spark. We will then discuss your desires, fantasies, and boundaries to ensure a safe and trusted experience.

3) Planning our date
Following our introduction, we will establish your preferences for our date and schedule a time.

4) Deposit
For a first date, I request a 25% deposit once scheduled. The remaining balance is paid at the start of our date, either in cash or via a payment link.

5) The location
Our first session will take place at your home or at a discreet location. We always begin with a brief check-in and a quiet moment to relax together.

6) Your BDSM session
We begin our date with low-pressure physical contact. The dominant dynamic only begins once I place you somewhere, give instructions, or pick up a toy.

7) Aftercare
The final half hour is dedicated to aftercare. We will take our time in peace for a cuddle and a debriefing, allowing you to have a gentle landing.

8) Day-after check-in
The day after our date, we will have a phone call. I will be there for you to discuss your experiences and feelings.

Quality, discretion, and safety are paramount. I take complete control, allowing you to let go of all responsibility and descend into deep surrender.
For your considaration:
Intimacy: Sexual acts between us are not standard intimacy, but a functional tool to deepen your surrender.
Safety & CNC: Playing with fictional coercion occurs exclusively after your explicit consent. A safeword immediately terminates any action.
Complete focus on you: Absolutely no attention to my needs is expected; I lead, and you follow in absolute freedom.
Hard boundaries: I work exclusively one-on-one with women. I dont provide services in regards to: men, couples, age/pet play, coprophilia/urolagnia, physical trauma, blood, heavy impact, roping, medical bondage, suspension, or prolonged isolation.